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		<title>Are you a healthy member of your community (family, church, business, not for profit)?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 18:17:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Community life, as in “we are starting an ‘Acts 2 thing’ at our church” tends to be is idealized. I wonder how long the Acts community lasted without severe conflict? We tend to hear about intentional communities when they are doing really well, or when they break up, or break away or split from the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=3445&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Nine things worthy of pursuit&#8230;..</title>
		<link>http://rodesmith.com/2010/05/31/nine-things-worthy-of-pursuit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 11:13:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rod E. Smith, MSMFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. To be the most generous person you know. 2. To hold everything you own with an open hand. 3. To share everything you know with willingness. 4. To do all you can to empower the people within your circle of influence. 5. To be able to say “yes” more than “no” to the adventures [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=3242&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Beware of &#8220;nice&#8221; &#8211; it isn&#8217;t always&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://rodesmith.com/2010/05/19/beware-of-nice-it-isnt-always/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 10:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rod E. Smith, MSMFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When dealing with difficult situations or difficult people&#8230;.. 1. Your responses are more important than the difficulties or the problems presented. You can choose to escalate (step up) the anxiety or embrace and reduce it (step down). The latter is usually infinitely more productive, although at times, purposefully escalating issues can bring necessary change. It [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=3208&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>How do I learn to love myself?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 14:34:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rod E. Smith, MSMFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Please tell me how to love myself more than I love others. I just don’t know how. I don’t want to become selfish and rude.&#8221; Avoiding self-love (abdication) IS selfish and rude. Loving yourself, part of which entails taking full responsibility for yourself, is not. I am not attempting to persuade my readers to become [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=3202&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>A challenge to young girls&#8230;&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://rodesmith.com/2010/04/23/a-challenge-to-young-girls/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 12:24:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rod E. Smith, MSMFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Begin now, today, to be the kind of woman you want to become in the future: 1. Stand up for yourself without pushing anyone else over. Speak your mind. Say what you want to say. See what you see. Say what you see you see. 2. Be your own “virus protection” program by keeping the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=3113&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Brief systems refresher&#8230;..</title>
		<link>http://rodesmith.com/2010/03/09/brief-systems-refresher/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 14:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rod E. Smith, MSMFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. Resist trying to maneuver (change, enhance, diminish) relationships where you, yourself, are not one of the parties. 2. Play postal service, clearing-house, or think-tank for no one – let others speak, act, and think on their own behalf. 3. Reduce reliance on the need to interpret or discern what you are thinking or feeling [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=2995&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>If you were my client&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://rodesmith.com/2009/12/22/if-you-were-my-client/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 14:39:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rod E. Smith, MSMFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for including me into your life as your therapist. I trust you will find what you are looking for, and more. If you know how I perceive the therapeutic process, what I think and hope to be able to do, you might be better positioned to understand the development of our shared journey. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=2744&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Ritual dialogue for a healty couple&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://rodesmith.com/2009/10/29/ritual-dialogue-for-a-healty-couple/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 02:35:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I will not get in your way. You may work where you choose, worship where you choose, and have all the friends you need and want. If you want to further your education I will do all I can to support you. You are absolutely free and do not require my permission for anything. I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=2588&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Essentials of self-care&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://rodesmith.com/2009/08/31/essentials-of-self-care/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 00:53:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rod E. Smith, MSMFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The essentials of self-care ought to not be underestimated. There is present in many cultures, the belief that self-care is somehow selfish while, of course, the antithesis is ironically true. To neglect self is selfish – a neglected self, even if he or she appears to be selflessly serving others, will spread relational toxicity wherever [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=2417&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Yes. It is all connected&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://rodesmith.com/2009/07/15/yes-it-is-all-connected/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 14:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rod E. Smith, MSMFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have met parents concerned about the degree of conflict experienced with their children, who then, during the conversation, will openly confess they have no time for a mother or father-in-law, their own parent, or are out of sorts with an adult sibling. When I gently point out that these conflicts are possibly connected, fueling [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rodesmith.com&blog=45167&post=2241&subd=rodesmith&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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