Comments on: A wife responds to post from a the “other woman”….

By: secretlysubmissive

secretlysubmissive — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 20:40:08 +0000

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By: Shaundra

Shaundra — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 18:07:17 +0000

Yes we all know there are many reasons why married men cheat and usually it is for the thrill and just simple selfish behavior. Excuses can be made that sound good as to why they cheated. But bottom line is, it is what it is, cheating. If a man and his wife have a mutual understanding that they are going to stay married for the sake of whatever, but will see other people well at least no one is left in the dark. If an affair is being had behind someones back then that is just selfish. Weather unhappily married or not. If there is nothing there what’s the problem with telling your wife or husband I want to see other people. For women who cheat with married men they need to realize Karma is a b@%&h! This woman already knows that hence her fear of marriage herself. She knows she has it coming for her.

By: Rae Dawn

Rae Dawn — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 19:10:36 +0000

There are many reasons husbands cheat on their wives and why single women choose to get involved with married men. In some instances, the married man is simply unhappy and realizes he has been married and has stayed married for financial reasons and because he does not want to abandon his children. He meets a single woman who appears to be more compatible and the single woman realizes that not all married men are cheats out for a cheap thrill. It is assumed that all people are “in love” when they get married. In many cases, I’ve found, this isn’t true. Marriage, like any other major decision, can be a mistake made with little thought or under the wrong circumstances or entered into with the wrong person. There are married men who come to terms with their unhappiness, ask for a divorce, and then accept the economic, social, and emotional consequences of following their hearts.

By: Cathy

Cathy — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:46:22 +0000

One wonder whether it is forgiveness or convenience…

By: Nancy

Nancy — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 20:40:59 +0000

I don’t condone the actions of the other woman or the married man; however, I don’t think fear of long-term commitment is as apparent as the woman’s fear of rejection by another selfish single man. As for surviving spousal misconduct, I once heard a survivor describe the deep pain of her discovery and how after prayer and counseling, God renewed their marriage into a covenant of beauty. She confessed her bitterness and hurt pride to Him and forgave her husband even as he confessed his affair to her and asked her forgiveness. Without real forgiveness, how can survivors become lovers again?