I left my husband for another man…

“I have left my husband for another man and I worked so very hard to start a new life with him. It is not easy at all. I ended up more alone than before and was fueled with anxiety and had to take medication. I lost interest in everything just about because I loved this man so much. He is now drifting away from me and I am alone. My marriage is over and I am about to lose my children because of what I have done. I loved this ‘other’ man much more then he loved me and now I feel the effects. It’s the worst feeling in the world to love some one so much when you cannot fully have them.” (Minimal edits)

Your heart has deceived you and resulted in enormous consequences for you and your family. I repeat: extramarital affairs are seductive – seducing participants from the real issues within the marriage and resulting in a new relationship destined to be flawed. The impulse for an affair (need this be said?) is a strong signal that the marriage, not the third party, requires attention.

2 Responses to “I left my husband for another man…”

  1. People like you destory lifes because you act like animals in heat, so you got what’s coming. You don,t deserve any sympathy!
    In some parts of the world this behavoir is still consider a criminal offence.

  2. I pray things within your soul are healing and you will learn to forgive yourself. There is no need to dwell on the mistake that has already been made. It is important however to learn a valuable lesson. One in life, and one in the art of forgiveness. We are human beings with powerful emotions. You have had the opportunity to experience a great deal of emotions because of an mistake you made in your life. Learn from this and you will be a better person and your kids will love you for that! Good Luck and God Bless.
    Funny how the person above almost has the same name as me!

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